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Is My Defiant Child "Masking" at School?

  • Lindsay P. South
  • Feb 13, 2025
  • 1 min read

The term "masking" is becoming more widely used but doesn't always explain a child's behavior.


Being much better behaved at school than at home is a very common phenomenon for the kids in my practice. Why does this happen?


A recent theory that is getting a lot of attention is that kids are "masking," a term typically used to describe when people with ASD (autism spectrum disorder) try to act like their neurotypical peers in order to conform. As it relates to autism, masking is considered detrimental because it is exhausting and studies have shown that it can increase anxiety and depression.1




 
 
 

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6 Comments


jerry cook
5 days ago

A very insightful article about understanding the reasons behind challenging behavior in children. The idea that a child may mask difficulties at school while expressing frustration at home is particularly important for parents and teachers to recognize. Looking beyond the behavior can help adults respond with greater patience and understanding. When sharing helpful resources online, a Bold Text Generator can make key information stand out and improve readability for visitors.

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Aug 22

This article offers a thoughtful look at how challenging behavior at school may sometimes hide deeper emotional or developmental needs. Understanding what a child is communicating can help parents and teachers respond with patience rather than assumptions. Resources like a Wingding Translator may seem unrelated, but the idea of translating unclear signals into something understandable is a useful reminder when supporting children, too.

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Aug 07

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gary moris
Jul 16

This was an informative and well-written post. It highlights how important patience and observation are when understanding children's behavior. Besides emotional support, simple tools like a Light Blue Screen can help create a soothing space for reading, studying, or quiet breaks. Thanks for sharing such useful information with readers.


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Ashish yadav
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Jul 14

This is a thoughtful and informative article. Understanding the reasons behind a child's behavior can help parents and educators provide better support. Thank you for addressing such an important topic. Gwa calculator

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